Meeting other gay and lesbians can be very hard unless you like going to gay bars and clubs. Of course there are gay people in all walks of life but it can take a long while to find someone by just hoping and waiting for that right person to appear in your life.

Even if do find someone you fancy the look of you do of course have to make sure that they are gay first before approaching them, and this could cause embarrassment!

Gay online dating sites have revolutionised the whole gay dating scene, and if you are new to it you can find a partner without feeling anxious or insecure. You can browse photos and profiles of other members from the comfort of your home and many gay online dating sites offer tips and advice.

Finding love if you're gay can seem hard and the thought of chatting someone up impossible. However online dating has changed all that and no matter if you are lesbian, gay, or bi sexual there is a dating site for you.

Get to know members first before meeting them through email, instant messaging and the telephone. Be very careful when you do decide to meet someone. Don't be a target for a gay hate crime.

Make sure the first time you meet up is in a public place. Don't give any lifts to anyone you feel unsure about, and let your friends and family know exactly where you are going and what time to expect you home.

As well as finding romance you can also make friends and expand your social network. You can find people by area, interests and profession with gay online dating, so you know that the friends you make will at least have something in common with you.

An alternative to gay online dating is gay speed dating. These are very popular now in many major cities. You have a set amount of time to talk to each date and it's a good idea to have some set questions in mind before you start. On average you are allowed between 5 and 10 minutes per date and that time can go very quickly so first impressions are crucial.

By Kathy Joyce Copyright December 2007

Contact Kathy Joyce support@dating-advice.org

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